My (43m) husband thinks it\u2019s funny to constantly slap me (43f) in the privates all day everyday.<\/p>\n
He sneaks up behind me and will stick his finger in my ass or slap my vagina.<\/p>\n
He does this in front of the kids.<\/p>\n
Once or twice is one thing but this is at least 10 times a day.<\/p>\n
Tonight I was in the shower washing my face and he came in and slapped my privates.<\/p>\n
He knows I don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve told him.<\/p>\n
I also have bad hemorrhoids after having the kids so when he sticks his finger there it hurts!<\/p>\n
He knows this. (Sorry for the tmi but I\u2019m pissed).
\nAfter the shower tonight I slapped him in the face.<\/p>\n
Not hard but hard enough to sting.<\/p>\n
His reaction was to punch me in the stomach and tell me he wants a divorce for hurting him. He\u2019s never done that before and in my opinion wayyyy overreacted. After 11 years of marriage that was a first and he said I\u2019m the AH. Meanwhile I\u2019m ready to leave and take the kids tonight.I know his reaction was not okay but was I out of line?<\/p>\n
UPDATE: wow I am so overwhelmed with all the encouragement and kind posts. I had a few not so friendly ones and I wish you\u2019d refrain from making me feel worse by saying hurtful stuff.<\/p>\n
Unfortunately this is true and I is don\u2019t make it up. I do feel the need to clarify a few things since I seem to have not chosen the best wording in my hasty post yesterday.<\/p>\n
He has not been doing this for year. This started a couple weeks ago. We both work from home and are home 24\/7.<\/p>\n
No I do not walk around naked. He\u2019s poking my butt through my clothes so not penetrating but it hurts and he knows that My children are safe as am I.<\/p>\n
I did call police last night and had him removed from the home. I\u2019ve started to talk to a lawyer and will move things along as needed My husband did call today and I had shut my phone off for a while, hence the late update, but he of course is apologizing and doesn\u2019t want to divorce. He offered counseling so we will look into that.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know how I feel just yet about trying to make this work but we will see.Thank you all again for reaching out. I haven\u2019t been able to reply to everyone yet but I will try.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"