My Husband Insisted I Pay For Him and His Entire Family at a Restaurant Although It Was His Celebration
A woman shared on Reddit how her husband’s financial assumptions caused a major argument during his milestone celebration. Married for three years with separate finances, they’d managed well until this incident.
To celebrate his bonus, her husband planned a dinner with his family but handed her the bill, expecting her to pay as a congratulatory gesture. She refused, arguing it was unfair for him to assume she’d cover the expenses. Tensions rose when he admitted he hadn’t received the bonus yet and begged her to pay, promising to reimburse her later. Frustrated, she paid only for her meal and left the restaurant, sparking further arguments at home.
The man claimed he would’ve paid if roles were reversed, while she maintained his assumption was manipulative. She sought advice online, where most sided with her, criticizing his poor planning and disregard for their agreement. The situation strained their marriage further, with his family also turning against her.
The incident highlighted deeper issues of communication, respect, and financial compatibility within their relationship.
