My Husband Avoided Traveling with Me for 17 Years — I Came Back from Holiday Early to Learn Why
Lauren always thought her husband Mike simply disliked traveling, but this year, his behavior raised more questions. When a family vacation pushed years of tension to a breaking point, she decided to uncover the truth.
While planning a summer trip to the Virgin Islands, Mike resisted, citing excuses about cost and discomfort. He’d always avoided family vacations, insisting they weren’t for him or the boys. But when Lauren finally booked tickets for herself and the kids, Mike’s resistance deepened.
On the trip, Lauren’s phone calls with Mike were short and distant, fueling her worries. After discussing her concerns with her mom, Lauren returned home early, only to find Mike sitting with a woman she didn’t recognize. In a moment of panic, he revealed that she was his therapist, Dr. Keller.
Mike admitted that he had a severe fear of flying, dating back to childhood. Instead of sharing this, he had used excuses to avoid family vacations, fearing his children might also panic. He confessed that he’d been hiding his fear for years, but was now seeking help in therapy.
Lauren was stunned but moved by his honesty. Mike promised to continue therapy and work through his fear, hoping to join the family on future trips. For the first time in years, they talked openly about their future plans, with the hope of overcoming obstacles together.
