In a deeply emotional interview with the BBC, Prince Harry opened up about his ongoing struggles since stepping back from royal duties in 2020. Now living in the United States with his wife Meghan and their two children, Harry expressed profound sadness over being unable to return to the UK with his family due to his downgraded security status.
The Duke of Sussex made it clear that without full protection for his wife and children, he sees no safe way to bring them back to the country he still loves. He described the loss of that security not as a simple bureaucratic move, but as a deliberate act meant to control him—a form of leverage used to keep him within the monarchy’s structure.
Harry revealed that he can only visit the UK if formally invited, and even then, under strict conditions. He believes this decision was made with the intention of forcing him to remain part of the royal system, saying, “They hoped that me knowing that risk would force us to come back.”
Despite the pain, Harry emphasized that he has never asked King Charles III to intervene on his behalf. Instead, he wanted his father to step aside and let experts handle the situation. But the removal of protection, he argued, not only endangered his family—it set a dangerous precedent that could affect future royals who wish to live differently.
He also spoke candidly about the role of the British press, which he claims fueled hatred toward him, Meghan, and their children—something he finds difficult to forgive. When asked whether he felt betrayed by his country, he admitted:
“At this point, I’m feeling very let down.”
Harry acknowledged that some members of his family may never forgive him—especially after the release of his memoir Spare —but he still holds out hope for reconciliation, especially with his father, who is currently undergoing cancer treatment.
“I don’t know how much longer my father has,” he said. “It would be nice to reconcile. If they don’t want that, that’s entirely up to them.”
However, sources close to the royal household suggest that forgiveness may not be the real issue—it’s trust that’s been broken beyond repair.
Insiders claim that repeated public disclosures and interviews, including those with Oprah Winfrey and the controversial revelations in Spare , have left senior members of the royal family deeply wary of Harry. One palace source put it bluntly:
“I genuinely think nobody trusts him. The royal family has major trust issues with him—and that’s what’s at the heart of everything.”
Royal commentator Hugo Vickers echoed this sentiment, suggesting that Harry’s actions mirror those of his late mother, Princess Diana—whose own media dealings caused lasting damage. “Harry did what his mother did,” Vickers noted, “and it’s impossible to come back into the fold after that.”
Tensions were further strained when Harry publicly commented on King Charles’s health—an act seen as inappropriate and disrespectful by those close to the monarch.
Meanwhile, Prince William and Catherine, Princess of Wales, reportedly have their own reasons for keeping distance. According to sources, there are lingering wounds from past accusations—including Meghan’s implication during her Oprah interview that someone in the royal family had made her cry and made racist remarks. Though names were never given, many believe the insinuation pointed to William and Catherine.
William has largely stayed silent in response to these allegations, stating only once: “We are very much not a racist family.” Behind closed doors, however, insiders say he fears any attempt at reconciliation could lead to more betrayal.
As it stands, Prince Harry remains emotionally open to mending relationships—but the royal family appears to have quietly closed the door.
While Harry sees restored security and protection as the key to reconciliation, those around King Charles III see something else as the true barrier:
Trust.
And according to insiders, that may be gone for good.