I thought asking my girlfriend, Sarah, to move in would mark a new chapter for us. Instead, her actions on moving day revealed a side of her I couldn’t accept, showing me my brother Ethan was the only family I needed.
I’m Matt, and two years ago, my world shattered when my parents died in a crash. At 28, I became the guardian of my 14-year-old brother, Ethan. Those early months were brutal—his nightmares woke us both, his questions about why our parents were gone left me speechless. “We’ll get through it together,” I’d say at 2 a.m., holding him as we both grieved.
Becoming Ethan’s guardian meant learning fast—school drop-offs, cooking meals, signing field trip forms. He switched schools, leaving friends behind, but he adapted, growing into a resilient 16-year-old. He works two jobs, buys his own clothes, and saves for college. I hate that he has to, but my income can’t cover everything. Despite the pain, we’ve built a bond stronger than I ever imagined—he’s my brother, my roommate, my rock.
I met Sarah at a bookstore a year ago. She was reading in the corner, dropped her bookmark, and I handed it back. Her wit and warmth drew me in. When I shared our story, she seemed to get it, saying, “You’re an amazing brother.” But looking back, I missed the signs—her sighs when I prioritized Ethan, her jabs about him being “coddled” when I packed his lunches.
A month ago, I asked her to move in. “What about Ethan?” she asked, hesitant. “He’s family,” I said. “This is his home.” She agreed, but insisted, “I won’t pay rent—couples shouldn’t mix money.” I was stretched thin but said yes, hoping love would outweigh logistics.
The night before moving day, I told Ethan. He grinned over his homework. “Cool, Matt. Maybe she’ll teach me to cook something fancy.” We laughed, and I promised, “We’re still a team, buddy.”
Moving day came, and Sarah arrived with a truck and movers. Ethan was at school, so I helped carry boxes. “It’s a mess now,” I said, eyeing the piles, “but we’ll sort it.” She hugged me. “I love you, Matt. Thanks for this.” Feeling hopeful, I ran to the store for dinner supplies—her favorite risotto ingredients, a good bottle of red. I pictured us celebrating our first night as a household.
But when I pulled into the driveway, my stomach dropped. Boxes and bags were strewn across the porch—Ethan’s clothes, books, his laptop, his worn backpack. The wine bottle slipped from my hands, shattering. Sarah stepped out, calm as ever. “You’re back,” she said, like nothing was wrong.
Ethan walked up from school, freezing at the sight. “Matt?” he whispered, eyes wide. Before I could speak, Sarah said, “Ethan, you’re a big boy. Couples need space. You can’t keep living here for free.”
Her words hit like a slap. Ethan’s face fell, and I snapped. “What did you say?”
She crossed her arms. “Be realistic, Matt. A teenager cramps our style. He’s old enough to manage on his own.”
“Manage on his own?” I shouted. “He lost our parents! He works harder than most adults! This is his home!” Ethan stared at his stuff, voice small. “I can go somewhere else. I don’t want trouble.”
“No,” I said, glaring at Sarah. “You’re not going anywhere.” Turning to her, I said, “This is cruel. Ethan’s my family. You don’t get to treat him like trash.”
She scoffed. “So I’m second to a kid? You’ll never put us first.”
“You’re right,” I said. “I won’t choose someone who’d do this. Pack your stuff and leave.”
“You’re overreacting,” she argued, but I held firm. “Out. Now.”
She packed, muttering about boundaries. I helped Ethan move his things back inside. “I’m sorry,” he said, voice cracking. “You didn’t cause this,” I told him. “She showed who she is. I’m glad I know now.”
Sarah tried one last plea as she left. “You’re choosing him over us.” I opened the door. “Damn right.”
After she drove off, Ethan and I sat amid the boxes, exhausted. “These boxes got a workout today,” I joked. He laughed, and soon we were doubled over, the tension breaking. “Thanks for sticking up for me,” he said. “Always,” I replied. “We’re a team.”
Sarah’s betrayal clarified what matters. Ethan and I are stronger without her, building our life, one day at a time.
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